Not us getting emotional over a neckline, but here we are, dabbling in shaadi-core feels thanks to Selena Gomez’s wedding. When a global pop icon says “I do” in Santa Barbara, you just know the internet’s going to have more FOMO than ever before. From a custom Ralph Lauren gown that’s already haunting our Pinterest boards to a guest list packed with A-listers, this wedding was basically the Oscars, but with better lighting and a lot more romance. Grab your tissues (or popcorn), because here’s your whistle-stop, recap of the nuptials that broke the timeline.

1) The Dress Heard ’Round The Timeline

Uff, can we talk about the dress? Selena’s Ralph Lauren masterpiece was the ultimate main character moment, halter neckline, delicate lace details, sculpted bodice, AND a dramatic low back that basically demanded a slow-mo twirl.

Selena Gomez in her backless Ralph Lauren wedding gown

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Add in those diamond studs, a glossy curled bob, and a lily-of-the-valley bouquet for the ultimate “clean girl” bride vibe. The whole look gave classic Old Hollywood, but with enough modern cool to make every fashion Insta lose its chill.

2) So, Here’s What Actually Went Down

Santa Barbara, September 27, 2025. Venue? Secret. Guest list? Top-secret. Rumour has it, guests were basically stealth-dropped at the private estate like contestants on a reality show, minus the masala.

Selena Gomez marries Benny Blanco in Santa Barbara

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We’re talking A-listers: music legends, Only Murders co-stars, and a few familiar faces trying (and failing) not to spill location deets on Stories. Privacy level? ZNMD road trip, no spoilers until the credits roll.

3) The Social Media Soft Launch (But Make It Official)

Instagram readings at this wedding were basically sacred rituals. The loved-up shots under the trees? Pure cinematic gold. Benny’s “my wife in real life” caption: chef’s kiss, internet implosion.

Selena Gomez wedding photoshoot

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Selena’s fans dropped reels, edits, and playlists faster than you could say “shaadi season,” and everyone’s now stalking hair and nail artists for product tags. Pro tip: screenshot those glam credits before they disappear from Stories.

4) Lore, Throwbacks, And The Slow‑Burn Love Story

From studio sessions to spouse sessions: Selena and Benny’s romance was a long game and a soft launch, not a PR stunt. Confirmed in late 2023, engagement in December 2024 (with a proposal story that could win Filmfare for “Best Quirk”), and bachelor/ette trips straight out of a ’90s flick (Vegas for him, Cabo for her).

What fans loved most? The “best friends first” storyline, a grounded, cozy, and totally anti-#PerformativeCouple vibe.

5) Fashion Girls, Assemble: Why This Look Works Everywhere

Let’s be honest: the Ralph Lauren gown checked every box for timeless with a side of Insta-2025. Halter + structure = snatched for every shape, and that low back? Enough drama, zero saas-bahu energy. Minimal jewels and pearl-toned nails kept things breezy (if you don’t already have a screenshot, wyd?).

And just like that, Selena and Benny schooled us all in soft, secure, and seriously fashionable love. If your mood board for 2026 just updated itself (relatable!), what did it do for you—the halter, the hair, or the internet’s collective crying?