It is always a difficult situation for a parent when a child moves out of the house. It’s a mix of emotions- loneliness, excitement, pride, fear and more. On this Reddit thread, people share what surprised them the most when their kids left.
1. “The difference between peaceful quiet and sad, lonely quiet.”
– factchecker8515
2. “How much my kids truly like and love me. They keep in contact all the time and find any excuse to come over and hang out with me. I figured they would just go on their own lives and leave me behind. Guess I did a good job.”
– crackhappy
3. “How much cleaner and tidier the house became.”
– surfdad64
4. “How similar it feels to starting your life over after a breakup or graduating from college.”
– Anonymous
5. “How much I’d miss them. They’ve grown into mindful, independent, kind, loving adults who can afford their own therapy.”
– awell8
6. “To answer on my parents’ behalf: how much the two of them had grown apart.”
– x_aceofspades
7. “That their rooms still get dusty and the walls that keep closing in.”
– depressedNCdad
8. “All the stuff he had. I don’t know where he got thousands of dollars worth of cameras, tablets, laptops, and other expensive things.
He never had a traditional employer. When we saw all the stuff, we thought he got into drugs or stealing or something.”
– useragent_
9. “How seldom he initiates communication with us. I’d thought he’d have a lot more questions about things, but I guess he learned how to live his life on his own.”
– 107197
10. “The moment our son moved out to live on his own he became vegetarian. He never gave us any indication he was planning to or wanted to be a vegetarian.”
– LaoBa
11. “How quickly they pick things up. I don’t mean that literally. I think, I thought my daughter would be a potato for much longer than she was.”
– Darkcrow89
12. “How they can sleep so many hours but yet keep you from sleeping.”
– Gametime743
13. “I’ve learned you save the most for retirement after the kids move out.”
– Gold_Champagne
14. “How quickly they moved back in.”
– DeepRoot
15. “How much they ate and how much electricity they used. Those things built gradually over time so I never really noticed as it happened.”
– friedpickleguy
Be right back, going to give my parents a hug.
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